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Local adult personals for people looking for sex in Dumfriesshire

Looking for casual sex near Dumfriesshire? You could try the tradition approach. Trawling local bars and clubs around Dumfriesshire hoping to get lucky or you could get with the times and try a different approach. Out Bed or Yours is a site dedicated to matching out members with other local members who are looking for sex. Whether they be swingers, bored housewives, cougars or just horny singles looking for some no string sex, choosing a site exclusively for sexually un-inhibited adults is the fastest, easiest way to find sex today.

Swinging, wife swapping or whatever you want to call it goes on in every city and town in the UK. In fact if you knew half of what goes on behind closed doors all over the country you might be quite shocked.

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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing members profiles.

  • Family first – This indicates that the couple of individual have a child or children which may limit the times they can meet or accommodate
  • FMF – Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Full swap – The couple is open to full sexual intercourse with the other couple
  • Day pass/hall pass – This means that the couple are in an open relationship and are allowed to arrange sexual encounters without their other partner being present
  • Play – Another term swingers use for sexual activity. Usually intercourse but often to describe other sexual activities like masturbation or oral sex.
  • Same room- This means the couple is only open to having sex in the same room as their partner
  • Separate room – The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to 'play'
  • Soft swap – this usually means the couple are allowed to have full sex but full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed but it is wise to clarify this before you meet.

Our free trial membership allow couples new to 'the scene' a chance to search members, browse profiles and even create their own profile with one photo to get a feel for our community and see if its right for you. Why not register now and check out the horny couples online right now waiting to meet you?

Our Bed or Yours lets you find fuck buddies, swinging couples and those just looking for some bedroom fun. Our safe and easy to use site lets you browse, chat and get to know loads of different types of people. It's not always easy to meet people for casual relationships or new friends (with benefits). We are proud to offer one of the largest and friendly communities of sexual confident and open members looking for orgies, swinging and threesomes.

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