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Our Bed our Yours is the number one community in the UK for openminded singles, couples and even married people connect, chat and meet up for adult onlly fun. As this is an adults only community, expect to see explicit content and discussions of a sexual nature.

If you are a single guy, girl or open minded couple looking for sex in Suffolk then you are in the right place for casual hookups, fuck buddies and chat. Every day thousands of people all over the UK just like you log in looking to meet someone for some casual sex, threesome or maybe a discreet affair.

Looking for sex in Suffolk

Swinging, wife swapping or whatever you want to call it goes on in every city and town in the UK. In fact if you knew half of what goes on behind closed doors all over the country you might be quite shocked.

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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing members profiles.

  • Family first – This indicates that the couple of individual have a child or children which may limit the times they can meet or accommodate
  • FMF – Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Full swap – The couple is open to full sexual intercourse with the other couple
  • Day pass/hall pass – This means that the couple are in an open relationship and are allowed to arrange sexual encounters without their other partner being present
  • Play – Another term swingers use for sexual activity. Usually intercourse but often to describe other sexual activities like masturbation or oral sex.
  • Same room- This means the couple is only open to having sex in the same room as their partner
  • Separate room – The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to 'play'
  • Soft swap – this usually means the couple are allowed to have full sex but full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed but it is wise to clarify this before you meet.

Our free trial membership allow couples new to 'the scene' a chance to search members, browse profiles and even create their own profile with one photo to get a feel for our community and see if its right for you. Why not register now and check out the horny couples online right now waiting to meet you?

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Our secure dating application and mobile app allow you to find and connect with local swingers in Suffolk and all over the UK safe in the knowledge that everything you do on Our Bed or Yours is anonymous and encrypted. Our dedicated messaging services let users communicate via their desktop or mobile when and how it suits them without ever needing to give out their personal email address or phone number and potentially revealing more personal information than is necessary.

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