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Local Swingers in Arnos Grove

Not for the shy and retiring, Our Bed or Yours is the UK's wildest sex and swingers club, where thousands of singles and married couples meet every day. Exchanging uncensored photos, chatting, flirting and arranging discreet encounters.

Are you an experienced couple looking for fellow swingers in Arnos Grove? Maybe you are new to the whole partner wife swapping and swinging scene and are looking for a discreet way to see if it's for you or maybe you are just a horny guy or girl up for being another couple's casual plaything! With over a million genuine members in the UK and growign daily, you are guaranteed a warm welcome on ourbedoryours.com.

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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing our site.

  • FMF
    This means Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Soft swap
    This generally means full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed.
  • Full swap
    The couple is open to full intercourse with the other couple
  • Same room
    This means the couple is only open to sexual activity in the same room where they can always see what either partner is doing
  • Separate rooms
    The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to have sex
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