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Discover and meet other frisky singles and swinging couples. Our Bed or Yours is your perfect opportunity to find other swingers in Canvey Island and all over the UK. Whether you're experienced and want to expand your swinging playmates or if you're looking for your first taste of swinging - we can help. We host an active and discrete community of swingers and discerning adults looking to play - horny couples and singles are welcome to join. Kinky females even get in FREE!

Join people from all over the UK who enjoy sex with other couples, threesomes and orgies. Our Bed or Yours leaves it up to you to decide what and who you really want. Swinging is for adults who enjoy sex and want to share the experience with more than one partner.

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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing members profiles.

  • Family first – This indicates that the couple of individual have a child or children which may limit the times they can meet or accommodate
  • FMF – Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Full swap – The couple is open to full sexual intercourse with the other couple
  • Day pass/hall pass – This means that the couple are in an open relationship and are allowed to arrange sexual encounters without their other partner being present
  • Play – Another term swingers use for sexual activity. Usually intercourse but often to describe other sexual activities like masturbation or oral sex.
  • Same room- This means the couple is only open to having sex in the same room as their partner
  • Separate room – The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to 'play'
  • Soft swap – this usually means the couple are allowed to have full sex but full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed but it is wise to clarify this before you meet.

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