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Swingers from Highgate

Meet sexually adventurous people like you. There are millions of people all over the UK who enjoy swinging, sex parties, group sex or casual encounters every week. Looking to just get fucked or something long term? Our Bed or Yours helps couples and individuals connect with people near them who enjoy sex and being with different partners.

Whether seasoned swingers, a curious couple or a horny single looking or fun, Our Bed or Yours give you the tools to find adult fun in Highgate.

Swinging, wife swapping or whatever you want to call it goes on in every city and town in the UK. In fact if you knew half of what goes on behind closed doors all over the country you might be quite shocked.

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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing members profiles.

  • Family first – This indicates that the couple of individual have a child or children which may limit the times they can meet or accommodate
  • FMF – Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Full swap – The couple is open to full sexual intercourse with the other couple
  • Day pass/hall pass – This means that the couple are in an open relationship and are allowed to arrange sexual encounters without their other partner being present
  • Play – Another term swingers use for sexual activity. Usually intercourse but often to describe other sexual activities like masturbation or oral sex.
  • Same room- This means the couple is only open to having sex in the same room as their partner
  • Separate room – The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to 'play'
  • Soft swap – this usually means the couple are allowed to have full sex but full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed but it is wise to clarify this before you meet.

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