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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing our site.

  • FMF
    This means Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Soft swap
    This generally means full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed.
  • Full swap
    The couple is open to full intercourse with the other couple
  • Same room
    This means the couple is only open to sexual activity in the same room where they can always see what either partner is doing
  • Separate rooms
    The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to have sex

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