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Every day thousands of couples log in looking like-minded couples for some partner swapping fun. Lots of our members are couples who are either active swingers or just in an open relationship. Others are in a monogamous relationship but enjoy logging in a chatting to other couples or even putting on a little web cam show for the voyeurs out there. There are no rules here, you set you own rules to play by.

I'm not in a relationship, I just want to meet other singles for casual sex

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Here are a few of the terms you may come across while browsing members profiles.

  • Family first – This indicates that the couple of individual have a child or children which may limit the times they can meet or accommodate
  • FMF – Female, male, female. Referring to sexual encounters involving two women and one man
  • Full swap – The couple is open to full sexual intercourse with the other couple
  • Day pass/hall pass – This means that the couple are in an open relationship and are allowed to arrange sexual encounters without their other partner being present
  • Play – Another term swingers use for sexual activity. Usually intercourse but often to describe other sexual activities like masturbation or oral sex.
  • Same room- This means the couple is only open to having sex in the same room as their partner
  • Separate room – The opposite of same room where couples swap partners and go into different rooms to 'play'
  • Soft swap – this usually means the couple are allowed to have full sex but full sex with the swapping partner is not allowed. Other sexual activity is allowed although the term soft swap is not clear on what. Most couples agree, kissing, touching and masturbation are allowed. Often oral sex is also allowed but it is wise to clarify this before you meet.

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